If something is not working out for you, it is because of yourself:
Do not depend on others for your happiness, it will probably make you happy temporarily or because that so called factor is there or can be there for the time being. However if you take control, learn to use your time, your ideas and your experiences to create more of you and a better you. Do not let others think for you or decide for you. Respect your instincts and do what will make you happy. Studying, watching a movie, Driving, Eating, Travelling – anything you want to do in Your Zone! Do not think for a minute that you can depend or consider someone else to make you happy. It is not they job to do so. The more time you waste thinking how it is and how it could have been you are weighing yourself down. And if no one has time for you or doesn’t even consider being in your shoes then, go ahead and do what you have to do to accomplish it!
There is nothing like the perfect moment, unless it is created by us, for us or with us. It’s what you make out of things, places, memories, that make them perfect. You cannot wait for the right planet or star to be aligned in order for you to start something or end it. (Although we think that way – me too sometimes…) Everything is related with your will and your power to do it. No one or nothing is perfect on the contrary we all are full of imperfections – so use your imperfections to make things perfect. Perfect moments are just a myth. Create your own!!
We all hate someone or something, or maybe “hate” is a strong word, maybe I should put it as Dislike, well if you do then do not waste your brain and heart over it. Try and eliminate, disconnect! Not the other way around snoop around Facebook or sneak thru Friends of Friends to see who is where and with whom. Do you really care? Does it really make you sleep better? Why do people care more about people they dislike then about people they should be confirming they love and friendships and relations with. Just a thought!! Sometimes we hear so much ill about certain people that for no reason of ours we simply put our head and heart to it and harbor feelings of hate and it eventually gets the best of us.
Easier said than done – I agree!
We can never seem to bring back missed opportunities however, we can do a lot about the ones to come. “Let Go”! Some things and some people are better as “bygones” Let’s not pretend we are ok and we can have everything our way – cox that is just not true! Simply appreciate what you have and look at the ones who do not and feel blessed and wonderful.
None of this will really matter five years from now. Your anxious worries and fears were all unproven. So focus on right now. You are and can be a happy and prolific person.
We all have bad days – Trust me we do! Adjust your days and your moods yourself. Do not dwell on them and make them seem like never ending. Cox no one will or can fix it for you. Times may seem inescapable; however you will proceed to the next step and the next one and so on.
Material and Physical comforts cannot make you feel happy for a long time, unless your mind is at peace. Yes it can distract you for the moment, and when that moment has vanished, you will be back in your land of unhappiness. We humans usually find it challenging to decipher between the two, being happy in the present state just for the sake of being happy or being content for a longer period of your life.
The art of trying to make everything work peacefully around you is extremely demanding. However, if you start with one person closest to you or the one thing important to you perhaps it won’t be so taxing on you.